Tuesday, March 17, 2009

The 75 simple secrets of HAPPY PEOPLE...

1. YOUR LIFE HAS PURPOSE AND MEANING
2.USE A STRATEGY FOR HAPPINESS
3.YOU DON'T HAVE TO WIN EVERY TIME
4.YOUR GOALS SHOULD BE ALIGNED WITH ONE ANOTHER
5.CHOOSE YOUR COMPARISONS WISELY
6.CULTIVATE FRIENDSHIP
7.TURN OFF THE TV
8.ACCEPT YOURSELF-UNCONDITIONALLY
9.REMEMBER WHERE YOU CAME FROM
10.LIMIT YOURSELF TO THINKING ABOUT ONE SUBJECT AS YOU LIE
DOWN TO SLEEP
11.FRIENDSHIP BEATS MONEY
12.HAVE REALISTIC EXPECTATIONS
13.BE OPEN TO NEW IDEAS
14.SHARE WITH OTHERS HOW IMPORTANT THEY ARE TO YOU
15.IF YOU'RE NOT SURE,GUESS POSITIVELY
16.BELIEVE IN YOURSELF
17.DON'T BELIEVE IN YOURSELF TOO MUCH
18.DON'T FACE PROBLEMS ALONE
19.AGE IS NOT TO BE FEARED
20.DEVELOP A HOUSEHOLD ROUTINE
21.DON'T BE OVERPROTECTIVE
22.PAY ATTENTION.YOU MAY HAVE WHAT YOU WANT
23.DON'T LET YOUR RELIGIOUS BELIEFS FADE
24.DO WHAT YOU SAY YOU ARE GOING TO DO
25.DON'T BE AGGRESSIVE WITH YOUR FRIENDS AND FAMILY
26.ROOT FOR THE HOME TEAM
27.DON'T CONFUSE STUFF WITH SUCCESS
28.EVERY RELATIONSHIP IS DIFFERENT
29.DON'T THINK ''WHAT IF''
30.VOLUNTEER
31.IF YOU CAN'T REACH YOUR GOALS,YOUR GOALS WILL HURT YOU
32.EXERCISE
33.LITTLE THINGS HAVE BIG MEANINGS
34.IT'S NOT WHAT HAPPENED,IT'S HOW YOU THINK ABOUT WHAT
HAPPENED
35.DEVELOP SOME COMMON INTERESTS WITH LOVED ONES
36.LAUGH
37.DON'T LET YOUR ENTIRE LIFE HINGE ON ONE ELEMENT
38.SHARE OF YOURSLEF
39.BUSI IS BETTER THAN BORED
40.SASTIFACTION IS RELATIVE
41.LEARN TO USE A COMPUTER
42.TRY TO THINK LESS ABOUT THE PEOPLE AND THINGS THAT BOTHER
YOU
43.KEEP YOUR FAMILY CLOSE
44.EAT SOME FRUIT EVERY DAY
45.ENJOY WHAT YOU HAVE
46.THINK IN CONCRETE TERMS
47.BE SOCIALLY SUPPORTIVE
48.DON'T BLAME YOURSELF
49.BE A PEACEMAKER
50.CHERISH ANIMALS
51.MAKE YOUR WORK A CALLING
52.NEVR TRADE YOUR MORALS FOR YOUR GOALS
53.DON'T PRETEND TO IGNORE THINGS YOUR LOVED ONES DO THAT
BOTHER YOU
54.GET A GOOD NIGHT'S SLEEP
55.BUY WHAT YOU LIKE
56.ACCOMPLISH SOMETHING EVERY DAY
57.BE FLEXIBLE
58.EVENTS ARE TEMPORARY
59.BE YOUR OWN FAN
60.JOIN A GROUP
61.BE POSITIVE
62.THERE WILL BE AN END,BUT YOU CAN BE PREPARED
63.HOW WE SEE THE WORLD IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN HOW THE
WORLD IS
64.KEEP A PEN AND PAPER HANDY
65.HELP THE NEXT PERSON WHO NEEDS SOME MINOR ASSISTANCE
66.TAKE CARE NOT TO HARSHLY CRITISE FAMILY AND FRIENDS
67.SOME PEOPLE LIKE THE BIG PICTURES,AND OTHERS LIKE THE
DETAILS
68.DO THINGS YOU ARE GOOD AT
69.GO VISIT YOUR NEIGHBOUR
70.SMILE
71.DON'T ACCEPT TELEVISION'S PICTURE OF THE WORLD
72.YOU ALWAYS HAVE A CHOICE
73.BE AGREEABLE
74.MONEY DOES NOT BUY HAPPINESS
75.WHAT DOES IT ALL MEAN?YOU DECIDE

Sunday, March 15, 2009

JUST FOR YOU...

TODAY IS THE 3RD DAY WITHOUT YOU IN MY LIFE...
I DUN REALLY FELT SAD....
NOT EVEN A DROP OF TEARS DROPPED FROM MY EYE...
JUST BECOS OF YOU...
MAYBE I AM TOO BUSY WITH ALL THE APPLICATION AND FACING THE COM WHOLE DAY LONG...
BUT I WENT OUT TO VIVO CITY JUST NOW...
I BOARDED ON THE TRAIN..
I SAW A COUPLE...
THEIR ACTION MAKE ME FLASHED THE MOMENT WE'RE TOGETHER....
MAKE ME THINK OF YOU....
WHAT THEY DID JUST LIKE WHAT WE DID TOGETHER LAST TIME...
THEY SMELLED EACH OTHER..
WHISPERING INTO EACH OTHER EARS...
LOOKING INTO EACH OTHER...
KINDA ALIKE WHAT WE HAD DONE...
REALLY MAKE ME THINK OF YOU...
BUT I REALISED THAT EVERYTHING HAD PASSED....
EVERYTHING CANNOT GO BACK TO NORMAL...
COS YOU AND ME HAD MAKE A DECISION TO LEAVE EACH OTHER....
HOPE THIS IS THE BEST DECISION...
ENJOYING THE MOMENT WE BE TOGETHER..
ALTHOUGH I AM NOT SAD WITH THE BREAK UP...
AND I AM NOT SURE WHETHER I AM DENYING MY OWN FEELINGS...
BUT I WILL STILL KEEP YOU AS ONE OF THE SWEET MEMORIES IN MY LIFE...
THANKS FOR COMING INTO MY LIFE....
HOPE YOU ENJOY YOUR LIFE..
YOUR DREAMS WILL COME TRUE..
AND THE NEXT GIRL WILL REALLY BRING HAPPINESS TO YOU...
AND LET YOU KNOW THE REAL MEANING OF LOVE...
APPRECIATE WAT YOU HAVE...
MAY GOD BLESS YOU..
SORROW WILL TURN TO JOY IN JESUS NAME...
SEE YA.....

Saturday, March 14, 2009

National service's life

On the 28th of December,i went to ns...boarded on the bus...
then knew my first fren yu shan..
when i reached the kem desa rimba ...i saw lots of people looking towards our bus..
actually they are those from kelantan and selangor...
i walked towards the caunter and registered..
haha....i belong to the company "charlie"..c group...
then i ahead towards my dorm....'mawar'
i knew my first fren in the dorm..swee hoong...
but people who stayed in my dorm looked weird for me at first..
there is a girl...oh nonono...a boy...i dunno at first.
actually she is a girl...everyone taught she is a boy...yea..she look like a boy....
but this girl really nice...her name is chee ling...
then there was another girl....with her colourful hair..looked cool and quiet...
her hair had more than 4 colour..red...yellow.and golden..oh no...kinda scary....
haha..but she was nice too..her name is joanne wong see ping from pangkor....
the moment i taught my suffering life in kem desa rimba had started when all of us were asked to carry our clothes...
i was given 2 pairs of baju loreng,2 inner loreng,2 pairs of baju kelas,2 pairs of baju PT,a pair of spike boot,a pair of kasut kelas,a pair kasut sukan,variety of belt and cap,and socks....
i could not imagined how i can carry all the things walking a kilometre back to my dorm...
and that moment rain falling down..
well....i was manage to carry the stuffs to my dorm....
but but but...my hand NON-STOP SHIVERING....
i was asked to sit in from of the stage...and i saw there was a girl crying at my right site...then i turn to my left..the girl was crying too..
my tears also dropping down....
i had cried for almost a week in ns...
but my cried stop at the moment we do kkj...
haha..this is the first time we had chance to talk with guy..all botak...
i knew shy yoong,kok lun,zi hang,kenny,boon yew,shun and sheng for the first time..they all killer hornet..hahahaha...
killer hornet is charlie....
i still remembered on 5th of jan....there was competition between company to present kkj...
hahaha...i was one of the presenter....
and my company got first..we are the champion....

Ns life was kinda boring...becos doing the same thing at the same time everyday..
this is the time table...
5.3o a.m. bangun pagi
6.30a.m. senaman pagi
7.30a.m. minum pagi
9.00a.m. go to class
10.30a.m. minum pagi
11.00a.m class
12.30p.m makan tengah hari...
2.30p.m.activities...(tts,kawad,ect)
4.30p.m.minum petang
5.30p.m.riadah
6.30p.m.makan malam
9.oop.m.activitie(watch movie,ceramah,ect)
10.30p.m minum malam
11.oop.m.tidooorrrrrr

this is the life there...
i got pangkat there...
satu balak on the shouder....
there were few more balak...2 balak,3 balak and 4 balak...
4 balak belong to al-hafiz..
a kelantanese...handsome boy,sweet,funny and cute...
i was always bullied by him in baris....
i was his number 1 fans...
haha
then somemore helmi,2 balak deltA... a cute guy...
saiful,2 balak bravo,a smart,handsome,funny and cute guy...
love hanging out with all the balak...
especially raja and sarah...
sarah was my new found fren in ns..
she was such a nice girl...
like her so much..
and really thanks her parent for spending so much of time to teach in kelas kerohanian...
may god bless her....
raja....ermmmm..
at first i dun like her..
but when we became balak...we mixed around...
i love her so much...

IN dorm..
my syg..eamy..miss her so much...
she also a kelantanese...
she was so cute...and i always look at her nasi lemak when she took of her clothes...
hahahahaha...
swee hoong,chee ling,joanne,mei mei,lily and pei pei..were the chinese in my dorm...
we all shared a characteristics..that is like to talk..haha
i really happy to meet them there...i liked to iron their clothes....
and when i cried the wipe away my tears..and shared everything with me...
thanks god for bringing them into my life..

haha....
i love to shoot...
i had the apportunity to shoot using m16...
i got 75 marks for the shoot..
i ride on flying fox for 2 times ....and tried all the kembara halangan...
i went to wira jaya...the day i will not forgetfor the rest of my life...
i chopped onion using parang and chop finger twice..
the toilet was so dirty but i had to use too...
but i really gained greatexperience..

ns brought lotzz of sweet memories...
i knew lotzz of fren..
meet people with different culture..
and the jl there really nice..
kinda happy going ns..
enjoy ns...